Each of us has a life and we can choose to live it any way we
like. What type of a life are you having?
Lousy? Not so good? Not bad? Or excellent?
One thing we need to remember is that the Bible warns us that there is a
penalty for choosing to live a bad life Our text tells us that this
way leads to eternal separation from God. All of us interact with
other people and they influence us in some way. A girl who falls in
love with a boy will make herself as attractive as possible for her
beloved. A boy will act tough and macho when in the company of other
boys who are good at sports. And all of us want to be like our
heroes.
1. Parents
As you grow up you will come to realise that your parents guide and mould
you in many ways. By the time you reach your twenties, you will find
that many of your parents values have become part of who you are!
Ephesians 6:1-3 reminds us that the first commandment with a promise is:
"Obey your parents and honour your father and mother."
If you do, it will go well with you and you will enjoy long and happy life
here on the earth!
2. Friends
Friends have a major influence in your life especially by "peer pressure."
Choosing good friends is very important so that you will keep on
obeying Jesus. You need to avoid being led into wrong things such as
smoking, drinking, clubbing, raves, the occult, sex and drugs.
Good friends can certainly help you through life. But they know little
more about life than you do, for they are mostly your age and have not
lived long enough to gain wisdom. Here are some verses that tell us
what good friends should be like:
"A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born to help us when we are
in trouble" (Proverbs 17:17).
"Some friends can ruin you, but a true friend is closer than a brother"
(Proverbs 18:24).
3. Circumstances and Choices:
All of us are effected by problems and situations which we have to face in
life. They force us into making decisions which could be good or
bad. In the end we have to make choices. Should we go this way
or that way as friends or parents advise us, or should we just go our own
way? Stop! Test the way and see if it matches up to God's way.
He wants us to go His way as He is vitally interested in our lives:
God created LIFE and He created you.
God wrote a MAP OF LIFE in the Bible and made it available to every
person.
God offers to HELP each of us to understand the map and be our Guide.
God does not FORCE each of us to accept His offer of help.
 
God will GUIDE each of us if we ask, through each problem in life.
4. The Bible Way
You can choose your friends and you can choose who you will listen to, and
decide whether to listen to advice from God, adults or friends. The
Bible has this advice for you:
"In all your ways let God lead you, and He will direct your paths"
(Proverbs 3:6).
"Your Word is a lamp that gives light to where I walk" (Psalm 119:105).
"I have hidden Your Word in my heart so that I might not sin against You"
(Psalm 119:11).
5. God's Way
Here are five ways that God wants you to have in your life and practise
every day:
Know God personally as your Friend and Saviour.
Pray daily to God as He cares dearly for you.
Read the Bible and do what it says.
Memorise special verses so that you can please God and not
sin.
Be filled with God’s Holy Spirit so that He can guide you in
all you do.
Yes, life is "A-Maze-ing"! Life is a maze and we need a good guide to go
through life. Who is going to guide you?
God bless.
Copyright © 2005 Sharon Children's Ministries