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To improve our listening skills we need to listen actively and attentively.
Listening can be our most powerful communication tool in
understanding what people mean when they talk to us. We can then
react in the correct way, because if we understand what someone says, we
will avoid the misunderstandings that lead to fights and quarrels. Hearing: Hearing and listening are not the same thing. Hearing is the act of listening to sounds, while listening involves our brains decoding the sound into meaning for us. For example, hearing occurs when a person has little motivation to listen carefully, such as music, story telling, television, or being polite. Active Listening: To really listen, our mind needs to pay attention. However, it is easy for the mind to drift - thinking about other things while listening to someone. The cure for this is active listening - which involves listening with intelligence and purpose. It may be to gain information, obtain directions, understand others, solve problems, share interests, see how another person feels, or show support. It requires the listener to attend to the words and the feelings of the speaker, hear what is said and understand their meaning, and then respond after the other person has finished speaking. Listening Skills: Few people know how to listen well. Most of us are too busy talking and concerned about ourselves to take the time and effort to listen to others. Solomon has some advice for how we should listen:
"My son, pay attention to what I say and listen closely to my words" (Proverbs 4:20). Jesus also blessed His disciples because they listened, and then obeyed Him by doing what He had commanded and taught them. The Apostle James was one of those disciples and he wrote:
"Everyone should be quick to listen, Our anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires. Pray right now and ask God to help you listen carefully in the future and respond to other children and adults in the right way.
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